Find and speak with Sha’ira on the Citadel and follow the quest line to clear her name with Xeltan.Choose Paragon or Renegade choices when Liara visits Shepard’s room before the final mission.After Virmire, speak with Liara and choose Paragon choices.

If you’ve already started a relationship with Ashley or Kaidan, tell them and Liara during the confrontation that you’re interested in Liara.Speak to Liara after she first joins the Normandy, then tell Ashley or Kaidan you’re interested in her.Renegade choices cause them to leave, but your romance is still considered permanent enough to carry to Mass Effect 2. Paragon decisions unlock a special scene. Before the final mission, Kaidan will visit Shepard’s quarters, but you’re free to choose here.The person you don’t save dies, which ends your relationship with them (obviously). During the Virmire mission, you must choose to save either Kaidan.Tell Kaidan you have only a professional interest in Liara once she joins the crew and you’ve spoken with her at least once.Speak to Kaidan after the Noveria, Therum, or Feros missions to take the relationship further.Comfort Kaidan after the Prothean Beacon incident.Renegade choices make her leave, but your romance is still considered permanent enough to carry to Mass Effect 2. Before the final mission, Ashley visits Shepard’s quarters, but you’re free to choose here.After the Virmire mission, assuming you saved your love interest, choose Paragon options during the conversation.The person you don’t save dies, which, naturally, ends your relationship with them. During the Virmire mission, you must choose to save Ashley or Kaidan.If that’s a lie and you’ve been flirting with Liara, too, you’ll then be confronted by them both and forced to choose with whom you want to form a relationship.Tell Ashley you have only a professional interest in Liara once she joins the crew and you’ve spoken with her at least once.Speak to Ashley after the Noveria, Therum, or Feros missions to take the relationship further.Comfort Ashley after the Prothean Beacon incident.

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